Dan & Chris’ Favorite Intimacy Essentials
A curated collection of body-safe, confidence-building adult wellness products from Essence of Desire that support connection, comfort, and exploration.
At Essence of Desire, intimacy is about choice, comfort, and confidence. We believe exploration should feel intentional, informed, and body-safe — whether you’re just starting or expanding your collection. 1
To help you explore with ease, our founders Dan and Chris shared a selection of products they personally enjoy and recommend — from versatile toys to accessories that elevate comfort and connection.
Air-Pulse Style Stimulation
Air-pulse or suction-inspired stimulation delivers rhythmic, touch-free sensations that many find deeply pleasurable without direct pressure.
A favorite in this category is the Satisfyer Double Whale Partner Vibrator, which offers gentle suction-style waves and versatile use for solo or partnered moments. 2
- Unique, touch-free pleasure
- Great for hands-free exploration
- Easy to integrate into intimacy routines
Elegant & Beginner-Friendly Options
For those new to wellness tools or seeking softer sensations, products with intuitive design and comfortable materials are ideal.
One excellent choice is the Aria Flutter Tongue – Purple, known for its gentle motions and playful stimulation without overwhelming intensity. 3
- Smooth, body-safe materials
- Simple to use controls
- Perfect for gentle exploration
Tongue-Inspired Stimulation
Rather than just vibration, motion-based tools mimic natural movement that many find uniquely pleasurable.
The Aria Flutter Tongue delivers soft, rhythmic sensations inspired by natural touch — a playful way to add variety to your experience. 4
- Soft, rhythmic movement
- Adds engaging variety
- Encourages playful exploration
Comfort & Positioning Accessories
Intimacy is more enjoyable when physical comfort is supported. Accessories designed for positioning and support help reduce strain and help you stay present with your partner.
- Supportive cushions and wedges
- Positioning straps
- Lightweight props for ease of movement
These tools aren’t always flashy, but they create space for comfort and connection — especially during longer or more relaxed encounters.
Couples Enhancements
Subtle enhancements can support shared experiences while staying comfortable and discreet. Tools like cock rings offer gentle enhancement and can fit smoothly into many couples’ routines.
Consider the cock rings collection for options that balance durability and comfort. 5
- Designed for comfort when properly sized
- Boost performance without pressure
- Easy to experiment with over time
Intimacy Is About Confidence & Connection
What Dan and Chris appreciate most about these products is how they support communication, curiosity, and shared exploration — not performance. These tools are here to complement your journey, wherever you are on it.
Take your time, start with what feels comfortable, and allow what you discover to guide what comes next.
FAQ
Are these products beginner-friendly?
Yes — many options here prioritize ease of use, intuitive controls, and gentle exploration for newcomers.
What’s a good starting point for couples?
Choose products that support shared comfort and communication, like rhythmic stimulation tools or positioning accessories.
How do I choose the right product?
Start with your goals and comfort level. If you’re unsure, begin with a versatile, body-safe option and build from there.
