Meet the Founders: Cris & Dan
Our story began with a whirlwind romance that proved a beautiful life can begin at any chapter. As two people who found love again after loss, we are living proof that you shouldnever give up—true love could be right around the corner.
Whether it’s your second, third, or - in Dan’s case -fifth bloom, we believe every new beginning is an opportunity for discovery. We bring a unique blend of heart and science to our community.
At The Essence of Desire, we believe intimate wellness is a vital sign of a healthy, vibrant life.
Based in Wethersfield, CT, we are a family-run business dedicated to helping you experience Intimacy Evolved - reclaiming your spark with elegance, education, and ease.
Dan offers over 20 years of professional industry expertise, ensuring every product we carry is high-quality and body-safe.
Cris brings a deep understanding of the human heart, backed by a degree in Psychology and years of experience as a Coach, focusing on creating inclusive, judgment-free spaces.
As proud members of theNational Association for the Advancement of Science and Arts in Sexuality (NAASAS), we are committed to staying at the forefront of education and wellness for every body, every identity, and every partner.
grow with us
Independent Opportunities
We are more than just an online store—we are a growing community. We offer engaging n-Home and Online Wellness Workshops designed to educate and empower.
To help spread our mission, we are looking for Independent Consultants to grow with us. We are not an MLM; we are a straightforward, professional partnership for those passionate about sexual wellness and high-quality education.
Curated Quality
Premium, medical-grade products we personally trust.
Expert Guidance
Professional advice for a Desire Renaissance — absolutely no "cringe."
Inclusive for All
Whether you're in your 20s, your 60s, or any vibrant year in between, we celebrate you.
